Digital content creator Eve Mungai has continued her candid conversation about body image, speaking out against what she describes as subtle but harmful “backhanded compliments” she has endured for years.
In a message shared on her social media platforms, Eve addressed remarks often made when people meet her in person, comments she says are framed as praise but leave a lasting sting.
“Another backhanded comment I deal with so often is when I meet people, and they’re like, ‘Oh my God, you look so good in person,’” Eve said.
She questioned the implication behind such remarks, adding, “What do you mean? I look bad on camera ama?”
Eve explained that while such statements are often delivered casually or even with good intentions, they reinforce harmful narratives about appearance and self-worth.
Over time, she said, she had learned to tolerate the comments despite how uncomfortable they made her feel.
“I hate it, but I have condoned it for years,” she admitted, pointing to a long period of silent endurance rather than confrontation.
The content creator’s remarks come amid broader reflections on her past struggles with being underweight and constantly scrutinized online.
Eve has revealed that in 2021, she was unhealthy and weighed just 44 kilograms, a period marked by body shaming, bullying, and emotional distress.
She has spoken openly about struggling with food, self-image, and public judgment, particularly as her visibility online grew.
In her latest message, Eve made it clear that she is no longer willing to accept comments that undermine her confidence, even when they are disguised as compliments.
“So from now on, tukipatana please don’t,” she stated firmly, encouraging people to reconsider how they speak about others’ bodies.
Eve also broadened the conversation beyond her own experience, calling for greater kindness and awareness in everyday interactions.
“Let’s be better human beings, honestly,” she urged. She emphasized that being mindful of one’s words requires little effort but can make a significant difference.
“It costs nothing to be kind,” she added.